The end of the year fills most men’s heads with new goals and dreams but sadly few do enough thinking, reenvisioning and rethinking. What if the activity before we leave 2025 is to become more instead of getting more by the end of this year point? I find it interesting how each year we get into the same rut — the pressure, the plan making, the promise making — but what a man’s life changes with is not what he resolves to do January 1st. It is what he resolves upon before the end of December 31st. Here are 10 things that you can do before we leave 2025 and plunge into the year 2026 with vigor, perception, and self-respect — the things backed up by the facts of science, wisdom and practicalities. 1. Audit Your Life, Not Just Your Year Before you set new goals, sit with your journal and ask: What drained my energy this year? What made me feel truly alive? This kind of reflection helps you align your direction with your truth. 📘 Inspired by : “ The Mountain Is You ” by B...
Life doesn’t come with meaning. It arrives blank—like an untouched page or an empty book. It is neither beautiful nor tragic, neither sacred nor sinful. It is simply… empty. And what you choose to write on that blank canvas defines whether your life will bloom or burn.
You are the writer. You hold the pen. You carry the ink. And the paper? God has already handed it to you the day you were born.
If you write curses, regret will stain your pages. But if you write songs—of love, of courage, of truth—your life becomes a celebration, a fragrance that lingers.
Let’s be honest—if you don’t write anything, weeds will grow. Meaninglessness is the natural state of a life left uncultivated. Like a field left abandoned. Weeds need no invitation, but roses, jasmines, and hibiscus—they demand care, attention, intention. They demand your heart.
I once heard a beautiful story. Hari’s neighbor asked, “How do I know which grass is real and which are weeds?” Hari replied, “Pull them all out. What grows back is the weed. What disappears was worth keeping.”
That’s life. If you don’t consciously plant love, purpose, meditation, and meaning, all that will grow back is confusion, chaos, and despair.
Birth is not life. Birth is a plot of land—what you do with it becomes your life. You must remove the stones of fear, uproot the weeds of comparison, dig deep into the soil of silence, and sow seeds of self-awareness and joy.
Only then will butterflies come. Only then will the birds sing.
Only then will your life read like a poem written by the soul itself.
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